Showing posts with label learn. Show all posts
Showing posts with label learn. Show all posts
Thursday, February 17, 2011
LEAVE YOUR MARK: Introducing The Blogstress Network
Last February something happened that changed my entire online blogging experience: I met another blogger "in real life." Turns out Lee Romano Sequeira, author of Madness Mom & Me, lived just a few blocks away from me but we'd never even passed on the street until that night at a mutual friend's party (city living can be crazy that way). I told Lee I'd been wanting to start a group for women bloggers, similar to one I'd organized with entrepreneur friends when I started my decorating business. Lee invited another neighbor, Barbara Hammond of Zero to 60 and Beyond, to join us. We met for cocktails and instantly "The Blogstresses" formed a friendship and invaluable source of support. What a relief to talk face to face with someone who understood SEO, subscriptions, stats, the importance of blog comments, the hopes and dreams you have for this medium that allows you, out of thin air, to channel your experiences, creativity and viewpoint. Plus share a lot of laughter.
Last month, over coffee one cold morning at Barbara's house, we decided to extend that source of support and inspiration to women bloggers everywhere. And so was born The Blogstress Network. Through our website, Facebook Page and Twitter we offer a way for women around the world to connect and support each other in our blogging efforts. And through local Blogstress Coffee & Cocktail meet-ups we turn those online relationships into real life, face-to-face conversation, idea exchange and fun.
I hope you'll join us and "leave your mark on the world."
Find out more at TheBlogstressNetwork.com
@blogstress on Twitter and
The Blogstress Network Facebook Page.
Since choosing the Lipstick Mark as our TBN logo, we've seen it pop up everywhere. Above, Juicy Couture "Sugar Kiss" laptop sleeve.
Monday, November 22, 2010
THE SKIRTED ROUNDTABLE
I don't know many other interior decorators in real life. So it's always a pleasure to pull up a virtual chair at The Skirted Roundtable and find out the inside scoop on decorating fees, common designer dilemmas, blog happenings and shelter magazine shake-ups. Hostesses Megan Arquette, Joni Webb and Linda Merrill's lively podcast interviews with women like top designers Charlotte Moss, successful blogger Anna Spiro of Absolutely Beautiful Things and magical movie set creator Beth Rubino (Someone's Gotta Get Her) manage to simultaneously entertain, educate and distract me from the drudgery of house cleaning. What could be better?
Elise Daniels & Monique in Schiaparelli Hats at Cafe Flore, Paris, 1948 by Richard Avedon.
NEW: In response to reader requests you can now follow Style Maniac using Bloglovin'. Click here for more info: Follow Style Maniac with bloglovin
Saturday, November 13, 2010
DESIGNING WOMEN
Rachel Ashwell and Kelly Wearstler could not be more different in their personal and professional style. Yet, each has influenced and expanded my thoughts on design, branding and business. Long ago Shabby Chic taught me to better appreciate patina, embrace the less-than-perfect and put comfort first. More recently the evolving style of KWID reminds me to stay open to fresh looks and remember that the next thing you love may very well be something you thought you hated. And both women offer case studies in turning your own aesthetic and philosophy into your own empire. (Love that!) How about you? What women inspire you in design and business--and why?
Images via Hue by Kelly Wearstler and Shabby Chic: Sumptuous Settings & Other Lovely Things by Rachel Ashwell.
Images via Hue by Kelly Wearstler and Shabby Chic: Sumptuous Settings & Other Lovely Things by Rachel Ashwell.
Monday, March 29, 2010
THE HAPPINESS PROJECT
Sometimes a makeover can be about changing the little things. That's what I like about Gretchen Rubin's The Happiness Project. Unlike the escapist form of self-help literature, Gretchen didn't sell everything and run away for a year. She found ways to be happy within her existing life. To do so she read every happiness theory she could get her hands on, from Aristotle to Oprah, and gave an amazing number of theories a workout. In the end, she found some universal truths (having friends makes you happier), individual revelations (what makes me happy might not be what makes you happy) and debunked some happiness myths. My favorite: "money doesn't make you happy." Well it does if it allows you to do things you love (travel) and avoid things you hate (cleaning!).
Gretchen suggests a structured approach to creating your own Happiness Project, but that didn't interest me. Instead my inspiration came more from a New Year's guest post on her blog suggesting "only make resolutions that will make you happier"-- because you won't keep any other kind. My resolutions: See friends more, build blog readership and reach, find at least one class at the gym I truly enjoy. And, like Gretchen, get over my aversion to asking for help (more on that in another post). Hokey as it may sound, doing those things has made me happier.
READ: The Happiness Project book and blog. The book takes a more studied approach, while the blog brims with easy tips and items that just make you ... happy. Like the video below. (If it does not appear click here.)
Gretchen suggests a structured approach to creating your own Happiness Project, but that didn't interest me. Instead my inspiration came more from a New Year's guest post on her blog suggesting "only make resolutions that will make you happier"-- because you won't keep any other kind. My resolutions: See friends more, build blog readership and reach, find at least one class at the gym I truly enjoy. And, like Gretchen, get over my aversion to asking for help (more on that in another post). Hokey as it may sound, doing those things has made me happier.
READ: The Happiness Project book and blog. The book takes a more studied approach, while the blog brims with easy tips and items that just make you ... happy. Like the video below. (If it does not appear click here.)
Thursday, January 28, 2010
STYLE MANIAC TURNS ONE
One year ago I began Style Maniac as a way to get back to writing, combat the dour economy and finally realize, in online form, the magazine dreams that had been rattling around in my head for so long. What I never imagined is that it would be so satisfying and oh so much fun. Or that I would learn so many things about technology ... social media ... using lemon yellow as a neutral. Most of all--best of all--I had no idea that this blog would strengthen, revive and bring new friendships to my life.
As a writer, you sit alone facing a blank screen, often wondering if you are the only person in the world to have a particular thought. Through a blog, you discover that an entire community shares not just a thought, but a similar interest and passion in books, movies, music, fashion, humor, decorating, entertaining, living ... with style. Even more amazing, that community encompasses ages 13 to 76, and includes women around the globe whom you've never met and probably never will. And yet you are all connected through this amazing, crazy medium.
So thanks to each one of you--readers, subscribers, followers, fans, family, friends, contributors, guest posters, photographers, artists, fellow bloggers and, especially, husband--for opening my eyes, brightening my world and letting me share my mania with you.
Photo courtesy Stefan Janeschitz, discovered through the magic of Flickr. Many thanks to Stefan for the perfect image (a single yellow&white candle--exactly what I wanted!). Check out his photo website,stefan-janeschitz.de.
As a writer, you sit alone facing a blank screen, often wondering if you are the only person in the world to have a particular thought. Through a blog, you discover that an entire community shares not just a thought, but a similar interest and passion in books, movies, music, fashion, humor, decorating, entertaining, living ... with style. Even more amazing, that community encompasses ages 13 to 76, and includes women around the globe whom you've never met and probably never will. And yet you are all connected through this amazing, crazy medium.
So thanks to each one of you--readers, subscribers, followers, fans, family, friends, contributors, guest posters, photographers, artists, fellow bloggers and, especially, husband--for opening my eyes, brightening my world and letting me share my mania with you.
Photo courtesy Stefan Janeschitz, discovered through the magic of Flickr. Many thanks to Stefan for the perfect image (a single yellow&white candle--exactly what I wanted!). Check out his photo website,stefan-janeschitz.de.
Monday, November 30, 2009
HOUSE vs. HOME
"We bought a house.
Your mother made it a home."
--My dad
Architecture, decor, neighborhood--all these play a part in turning a house into a home. But, of course, what matters most are the people inside. That's something my dad taught me a long time ago. For Carl, the septuagenarian main character of Up, that realization comes only after a flight halfway across the world and many many thousand balloons--and thank goodness, because we get to be a part of his poignant journey in this remarkable and deeply touching movie.
DIVA DVD: Up. Teaser trailer via RawkusBixhu on YouTube.com. For the official Disney/Pixar trailer click here. And don't be fooled by the animation and animals--this movie is really for adults.
Tuesday, November 24, 2009
GUEST POST: Architect Karen Krauskopf's Tips On Choosing A Home
Karen Krauskopf and I met our first semester of college and have shared a passion for design, style and spirited conversation ever since. I thought it would be wonderful to add some architectural expertise and perspective to our Thoughts On Home this month and I am delighted that Karen agreed to contribute this guest post to Style Maniac.
Private or public? Formal or informal? How do you entertain? What are your hobbies, and how often do you pursue them? These questions greatly influence the collection of rooms and the relationships that create a pleasing experience in your home. If you only use a formal living room once a year for the family photo, you do not have to have it in your home just because your mother did. On the other hand, if you use it every day – perhaps it is the one quiet place in the house with great light where you can curl up with a book or there is a budding pianist in the family, by all means include it. Honor and embrace what makes you and your family happy, and communicate that to your architect or real estate agent. The client in the above photos lives a "public" life. Double height windows and terraces face the street and allow the homeowner’s wonderful sculpture collection to be visible to and enjoyed by passersby. (PHOTO: MC2 Architects)
TWO | Understand where you live.
Since a home is permanently situated, understanding its place is paramount. Here on the Southern Gulf Coast, we raise our homes off the ground in order to ventilate them from underneath and also keep them from flooding. We have deep porches to shade us from the harsh sunlight and to channel breezes through the house. The same house – if built in Pennsylvania or New England – would be painfully cold and dark, no matter the level of insulation. Take a look at the houses in your area built before the advent of central heat and A/C. These homes were built for performance as well as aesthetic beauty.
THREE | Choose quality of design over quantity of square feet.

Quality of design involves room sizes and proportions, ceiling height, window and door locations, views and connection to the outdoors, natural light; and details such as the craftsmanship of stair railings, built-in casework, window selections, trim and connection details, lighting selection and design. Thoughtful attention to these details increases the per-square-foot construction budget, but give a space character. In most every case, a smaller, detailed home is preferable and more livable than generic largesse.
I love this little house and its contrast of scale - the small, small footprint (20' x 20') with huge glass doors and windows. It really connects this tiny space to its surroundings while creating a warm, sheltering refuge. The house is intricately detailed with industrial metal materials offset by warm wood. The large wheel is more than just decoration--it operates the steel shutters which protect the home from harsh conditions. (PHOTO: Olsen Sundberg Kundig Allen Architects)
Note how the partition walls in this home stop short of the ceiling, allowing light into and out of that room to penetrate other areas; and how the bridge breaks up the double height space. Without the connecting bridge the vast volume would be a generic echo dome. (PHOTO: Stern Bucek Architects)
I find the most beautiful and cohesive homes those in which there is a clear connection between the exterior form and the interior layout. (SCHEMATIC ELEVATION: Karen Krauskopf)
FIVE | Consult a professional.
This is not shameless self-promotion. Whether you are shopping for an existing home or a lot on which to build, consult an architect or interior designer. Ask your real estate agent for a second showing and bring your team in for feedback. We are trained to evaluate the assets and liabilities of existing spaces and building sites, local renovation and construction codes and restrictions, and we are definitely trained to “see” possibilities. Of all the professionals involved in buying or building your home, these two are the only ones whose sole interest is representing you and finding that unique home design that is the balance of your dreams, aspirations and of course your budget.
Karen A. Krauskopf
AIA, LEED AP
kakrauskopf@gmail.com
Wednesday, October 14, 2009
LYDIA & VALENTINO
Oh how I wish my Grandma Lydia, seamstress extraordinaire, could have seen this film. Valentino: The Last Emperor offers an intimate, honest and touching look at how a genius' vision and a lifelong partnership can, when all the stars align, combine to make sublime, yet completely wearable works of art that in the end serve one simple purpose: to make women beautiful.
Throughout the movie Valentino amuses, his partner Giancarlo Giammetti charms, their lifestyle wows, their 45-year reign at the pinnacle of fashion amazes. But head seamstress Antonietta de Angelis steals my heart. With her meticulous perfectionism, incredible knowledge and talent, salty personality and unaffected style she could just have easily been Lydia Panini Gatto. At one point, while viewing an ethereal white gown that's practically a character in the movie, Valentino turns to Antonietta and says, "Look. Look at your masterpiece." Even the emperor knows to give credit where it's due.DIVA DVD: Valentino: The Last Emperor. Watch the DVD Special Feature "The Red Dress" for a wonderful in-depth look at producing a couture creation.
Video via You Tube/3DollarBillCinema. Photo via valentinomovie.com.
Labels:
diva dvd,
dress,
family,
fashion,
learn,
movies,
my grandmothers,
style,
style icons
Sunday, October 11, 2009
A DASH OF DARING
"Eleganceis good taste
plus
a dash of daring."
-- Carmel Snow
legendary editor-in-chief
Harper's Bazaar
1933-1957
A genius editor who discovered and encouraged genius talent such as Richard Avedon (photo above), Martin Munkacsi, Alexey Brodovitch, Christian Dior, Diana Vreeland, Truman Capote, Lauren Bacall, Cecil Beaton, Louise Dahl-Wolfe, Jean Cocteau, Cristobal Balenciaga, Brassai, Henri Cartier-Bresson and Andy Warhol. For more on her iconic role in American fashion and photography click here or here.
Photo via ?? so many websites I've researched on the topic I've lost track.
Wednesday, April 8, 2009
THE LAST WALTZ
Sometimes when you hear raves about a film you wind up disappointed when you finally see it. Particularly a movie billed as "the greatest xxx" of all time. Not so The Last Waltz. When I finally watched Scorsese's chronicle of The Band's last concert it not only captivated me but led me down the rabbit hole into an immersion of 70s rock that I knew existed (after all I live with the ultimate 70s rock music fan) but didn't really know.
I watched the movie five times in one week. I could say it had to do with Muddy Waters tearing up Mannish Boy, or The Staples Singers soaring on The Weight, or Dry Your Eyes by Neil Diamond or I Shall Be Released by everyone. I could say it had to do with the baroque glowing red stage set, borrowed from an opera company. I could say it had to do with how Scorsese put me on that stage with Clapton, Dylan, Danko, Helm, Hudson, Manuel, Wood, Mitchell, Young, Starr, etc. etc. All would be true. But really it had to do with Robbie Robertson. There's a reason girls love rock stars and guys want to be rock stars and if you watch RR in this movie you'll know why. Sayonara, George Clooney.
My husband may have rolled his eyes but he gave me the cd box set as a gift and the fall continued ... into an iTunes exploration of everything Emmylou Harris ... which reminded me how much I love Linda Ronstadt ... to more live Neil Diamond (Hot August Night) and more Van Morrison ... and then to Bob Dylan. Did I know Kevin had dozens of Dylan cds stashed in the basement? Yes. Had I ever listened to every single one of them, night after night, for months? Ah, no. But I have now.
DIVA DVD: The Last Waltz. For movie-inspired music picks browse my Amazon store.
Photos from The Band's The Last Waltz 25th anniversary cd box set.
Tuesday, April 7, 2009
THE ART OF ROCK

I have no problem buying a book for its cover (otherwise known as coffee table books). What's even better though is a book with a great cover and an incredible interior. This one qualifies. It also inspired Style Maniac's April theme of Art & Rock.
The Art of Rock: Posters from Presley to Punk by Paul Grishkin covers a period of rock history when the creation of concert posters for groups like Big Brother & The Holding Company, The Doors and the Grateful Dead rose to a sublime level. Artists like Rick Griffin and Victor Moscoso wove band names, locales and images in a psychedelic mix that reveals new surprises with every viewing. Case in point: this book has been on display in various rooms of our home for years but I didn't notice that the cover art includes the subtitle until writing this post. Can you find it?
READ: The Art of Rock: Posters from Presley to Punk by Paul Grishkin.
Friday, February 13, 2009
OTHERWISE KNOWN AS DATING


"You have to kiss an awful lot of frogs before you find a prince." --BBC Radio 4From Have Some Sand: The Gritty Side of Love.
Subscribe to:
Posts (Atom)










